Sunday, April 11, 2010

Media

Are you secure with yourself?
Are you happy?
Are you worth it?
Are you good enough?
Is your marriage stable?
Are YOU stable?
...probably not
Do you suck at relationships?
Do you have a low self-esteem?
Are you always looking for something just a little better?
Do you work harder and longer for the things that are better than what you have?
...probably
WHY?
...Media.
The media has evolved the human race into insecure, unstable, depressed maniacs. HOW?
Beauty magazines that make women feel they aren't beautiful enough or good enough or NEED to buy their product because they have something wrong or something that could be better about them...low-self esteem.
Television that makes men and women feel the incredible need to stop eating and work out or BUY our workout video because your not good enough...insecurity/looking for something better.
People day in and day out are bombarded with things that are trying to convince them they aren't good enough or deserve something better.
This is creating a plethora of problems such as arrogance, depression, eating disabilities, insecurity which in return is ruining the relationship as we USED to know it....get to that later,affairs, suicide, and ultimately an enormous amount, and not too mention ridiculous, of anti-depressants that are given out like candy on Halloween because people are down and out about it!
I'm not blasting beautiful people and people that are into their image or health whatsoever! I myself workout.
I am blasting the reasons that the MAJORITY do these things.
I hate hearing worthful people genuinely believe that they aren't beautiful because they set a standard from watching celebrities walk the red carpet or act in a show.
People are always looking for something better...this is creating a problem with finances, families, AND relationships.
You want the new pool because the neighbor got one? Work too much.
you want to work too much to get it? Sacrifice your family.
You want something a little more attractive? Have an affair.
These things are no problem anymore...they have actually become a norm for human behavior.
But it didn't used to be like that.
What happened?
There were always celebrities, there were always beautiful people, and there have always been workout and beauty products...but there hasn't always been a sales pitch to make you believe that you aren't good enough.
Now I know the majority of my blogs end with a conclusion...sad to say there is none.
Because you aren't worth it, you aren't beautiful enough, you need the better things...why...because everyone else wants you to have these things also. Everyone else wants you to think your insecure and not good enough...it will make you work harder, it will make you more beautiful, and it will increase your 'status'. So no matter what I tell you...your going to do it. Because other people want it from you as well. . . . . . . . . . . . sad huh?

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